Is this sexual equality? Is the traditional double standard -- sexually active guys are studs; girls who "do it" are sluts -- a thing of the past? Somehow, I doubt it.

This much I believe: Whether male or female, it is healthier and more intelligent for teens to wait until they are truly ready to handle relationships and responsibility before having sex, oral or otherwise. And it's time to put my 9-year-old son under lock and key.

I wrote that as a joke, more than anything else. But there is some truth to it -- my daughter and her friends, back then, told me that a lot of the kids pointed to Slick Willie as a justification for their behavior and for the contention of some that oral sex isn't really sex.

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